All the reviews out there have to be carefully interpreted. Some reviewers say they love the ride, others say it's not so great. Then you look at the trims. One was AWD independent suspension. The other has FWD with the cruder suspension. Same for gear ratios. Same for noise level (does it have the noise insulation glass, etc). What did the truck weigh? Did they correct tire pressure to manufacturer specs? What tires were on each truck? The list of apples-to-oranges details is really long.
The only thing that matters is your opinion. Car reviews are fun fast food, but not particularly nutritious.
Could be octane too, I wonder if one is running 87 and the other 93. I found a Ford document a while back for another vehicle that uses the 2.0 ecoboost and Ford indicated it was around a 20hp difference IIRC.4WD also has 4K tow. The lower gear ratio of the 4K tow makes the difference.