I received Ford confirmation within an hour or so of ordering. Unless Ford is overwhelmed inputting new orders, I would contact the dealer.
I got my order confirmation email right before I left the dealership with paperwork, like 5 minutes after order was placed. I was kind of lucky as salesman differed me to person who sits behind glass window and most likely the one who is in change of placing orders, so it was direct ordering with person who does this all day long at the dealership. He had like 5 minute phone call during the process, probably consulting with the manager. He actually asked me if I received the order confirmation email before I left and it arrived in a minute after he asked.