Hmmm... I must be missing something. I did it with the ignition on, not running. Just navigated to the right screen and held the OK button down on the right side of the steering wheel.
According to the manual, the procedure for resetting oil life is as follows:
I held that OK button for about a minute.. How freakin long do you have to hold it??
It's called a super sack.. You can get them on Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/HWRHGE-Container-Capacity-Polypropylene-Fastening/dp/B0D7TG5DPP/ref=sr_1_11?sr=8-11
As it turns out, I had the wrong connector and actually wanted to connect to the dome light. I found the correct connectors made a proper harness and completed the install.