UPDATE::::: After much research and turning everything on and off in every possible combination I have come to the realization that it has to do with the evasive collision display setting. Unchecking this setting while ALSO having lane assist disabled is the only way to achieve this. One without...
I'm also in the Tulsa area and ended up heading to Bristow to pick up a fully-loaded Shadow Black Lariat FX4 the day it arrived on their lot. Didn't place an order or anything. Didn't want to wait.