I too have a 2022 XLT and we have had zero issues with ours. We have driven it twice to Southern CA from WA and back no issues at all. Like you, my only issues have been with our local dealer and getting the recalls taken care of. So far, it's been one of the most trouble free vehicle purchases...
Yay, my truck I ordered on 8-28-21 finally shipped. "looks like your rig has shipped and is on its way to us! It has a new eta the week of October 21st. I'll keep you posted on its arrival!"
I did receive vin 3FTTW8E31NRA80493 on 7-19, saying my build date was Aug 1, then was delayed to Aug 29, then to Sep 5, now this update doesn't have a date.